Holiday ideas that inspire growth, connection, and memories.
This holiday season, let’s partner with teens, not just buy for them. Whether you’re a parent, teacher or volunteer, there are meaningful ways to celebrate, support and invest in the teen in your life that go beyond “stuff”.
Let’s be honest…your teen already has enough sweatshirts. Those new headphones they really want? They’ll probably end up in the washing machine.
This year, skip the Amazon wish list and go for something that says, “You matter!”
We often get asked for ideas on how to better connect with teens, and the holidays create the perfect opportunity for you to create memories, share experiences, and give gifts that will make a lasting impact way after the initial excitement.
A “Live” Experience
Invest in tickets to something they’ll love. There is nothing like a first or meaningful live-event experience. You could find tickets in your hometown and make a night of it, or take a road trip and explore a new city for a full weekend of fun.
- Concert of their favorite band
- Favorite musical or play
- Live comedian
- Sporting event
“A Day of Adventure” Voucher
If you have a thrill seeker, take them on an adventure they won’t forget! This could be one experience or a Choose Your Own Adventure day where they can try several things that have been on their bucket list.
- Rock Climbing
- Indoor Sky Diving
- Zip Lining
- Escape Room
- Amusement Park
A Hobby Starter Kit
Has your teen been wanting to start a new hobby? The upfront investment can sometimes be intimidating, so take that off their plate! Get them everything they need to start up a new skill, including supplies or a class if needed.
- Cooking or Baking (sourdough, anyone??)
- Art or Banner Painting
- Singing or a Musical Instrument
- Makeup Artist Business
- Photography
Membership, Subscription, or Season Pass
Give them a gift that will keep on giving throughout the year! This one is especially fun because you can tailor it to their interests, and it is something they can use over and over again.
- Museum Membership
- Clothing Rental Subscription
- Climbing Gym Pass
- Movie or Theater Pass
- Craft Subscription Box
- Gym Membership
- Book Box or Kindle Unlimited Subscription
- Sporting Event Season Tickets
A Connection Experience
Give them an experience that will intentionally encourage connection. Take a trip or plan a “stay-cation”. Try something new together!
Here are some higher budget ideas:
- Food Tour around your town
- Camping/Glamping
- Road-Trip (make sure to stop at Buc-ees!)
- Explore a State or National Park
- Mission Trip or Service Experience
Or for something simpler, try:
- Lunch at their favorite restaurant
- A new board game and a family game night
- Try replicating their favorite restaurant meal at home
- A weekend of playing a new video game together
Tips to take the experience a step further:
Plan the experience together. You can surprise them on Christmas morning, but let them help you plan the details. This gives them more buy-in and ensures that it is something they will be excited about.
Give them your undivided attention. When it comes time to cash-in on the experience, leave your phone at home! Or give them the option to leave their siblings and get some special parent/teen time. Use this opportunity to fully invest in them. That is a gift all on its own!
Ask follow up questions. Use the experience as a springboard for more conversation! “What was your favorite part?” “If you could do it over again, what would you change?” “What do you want to experience next?”
This holiday season, let’s give more than presents — let’s give presence.
The best gifts don’t just fill a wish list; they fill a teen’s life with confidence, connection, and memories that last far beyond the wrapping paper. Whether it’s an experience you share, a skill that helps them grow, or a simple reminder that they’re seen and loved, these gifts can shape who they become.
Your Challenge
Before you hit “add to cart,” ask yourself, “Will this gift bring us closer?”
Choose one gift or experience this year that strengthens your bond, sparks growth, or gives a teen a reason to believe in themselves. That’s the kind of gift that keeps on giving.
Karlie Duke
Communications Director
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Karlie Duke | Director of Communications
Karlie has always had a heart for teenagers. Through her role at Teen Life, she loves to showcase the amazing stories coming out of Support Groups, but she is especially passionate about helping adults and teenagers find connection. Karlie has a BS in Communications with a minor in Family Studies from Abilene Christian University.
Tobin Hodges | Program Director
Tobin’s entire career has been centered around students and teens from all walks of life. He has a passion for helping teens be their best selves. As Program Director, he loves working directly with school staff and students through Teen Life Support Groups. Tobin has a Bachelor’s Degree in Music from Texas Tech University.
Caleb Hatchett | Podcast Co-Host
Caleb loves helping teenagers take ownership of their faith and relationships. He graduated from Abilene Christian University with a degree in Youth and Family Ministry and is currently Student Ministry Director at Jenks Church in Oklahoma.