Don’t Panic about Talking to Your Teen

Don’t Panic about Talking to Your Teen

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Holding conversations with teenagers where they actually open up and share about their personal lives can be difficult. In this episode, Chris and Karlie share some practical advice for talking to teenagers (and getting them to talk back). Instead of panicking about what they aren’t telling you, learn to start asking better questions!

In this episode, you’ll find out…

What you can do to better talk and communicate with teenagers.
How to stop teens from confiding in you.
Why being a good-listener is so important.
How to construct better questions.
Indicators of when you need to follow your intuition and ask more questions.
Practical things you can try today to improve communication with teenagers.

Ask yourself…

Am I shock-proof? What steps can I take to become even more shock-proof?
How can I better communicate that I am trustworthy in times of crisis?
When do the teenagers I interact with want to talk? Am I available at those times?

Teenagers need to know there is a safe place where they can go to share difficulties and struggles.

Go ask a teen…

A few questions from this article!
Where did you struggle today?
What did you do good today?

Links & Resources:

  • Blog Post: “How to Stop Teens from Confiding in You”
  • Article: “28 Ways to Ask Your Teens ‘How Was School Today?’ Without Asking Them ‘How Was School Today?'”
  • Book: Leadership Coaching: The Disciplines, Skills, and Heart of a Christian Coach  by Tony Stoltzfus
  • Website: dontpanicpodcast.org
  • Music: Under the Chandeliers

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Karlie Duke
Karlie Duke

Communications Director

Chris Robey
Chris Robey

Former CEO

Don’t Panic about Social Media with Sarah Brooks

Don’t Panic about Social Media with Sarah Brooks

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Sarah Brooks joins us on the Stay Calm, Don’t Panic! Podcast to talk all things Social Media! Are you concerned about your teenager’s digital life? Are you looking for answers but don’t know where to start? Do your social media conversations only lead to fights? In this episode, we discuss the answers to all these questions and more.
 
 
 

In this episode, you’ll find out…

  • How teenagers view social media, and why it isn’t the same as how adults view it.
  • The top apps that teenagers are using in 2016 (according to “sarahstistics”).
  • How social media affects teenagers’ self-esteem.
  • The benefits and positive aspects of social media.
  • A different perspective of how to view social media.
  • How to create a sacred, tech-free space.

 

Ask yourself…

  • Am I choosing my battles wisely when talking about social media with teenagers?
  • Am I having a conversation about social media or starting a battle?
  • What am I scared of when it comes to social media?
  • How much time am I spending on my phone? Am I willing do what I am asking of my teenager?

 

Go ask a teen…

  • What are the top 3 apps that you like to spend your time on?
  • Do you feel pressure from social media? Do you feel the need to keep up and get as many followers as your friends?
  • When am I on my phone that you wish that I weren’t?

 

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Former CEO

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